Lesson 9 家族 Family
Lesson 9.1
家族
かぞくFamily
Dialogue 1
Michal sees Ms. Tanaka standing outside.
Michael: Nani o shite iru n desu ka.
何なにをしているんですか. What are you doing?
Tanaka: Shujin o matte iru no.
主人しゅじんを待まっているの。 I’m waiting for my husband
Michael: E! Tanaka-san, kekkon shite iru n desu ka.
えっ!田中たなかさん、結婚けっこんしているんですか。What! You’re married?
Tanaka: Un, kyonen kekkon-shita no.
うん、去年きょねん結婚けっこんしたの。 Yes, I got married last year.
Michael: Hee. Shirimasen deshita.
へえ、知しりませんでした。 Wow! I didn’t know.
Vocabulary
shite iru | している | is doing See 9-1-1, 9-1-2 | |
shujin | しゅじん | 主人 | husband; my husband (plain) |
+gojujin | ごしゅじん | ご主人 | husband; your husband (formal) |
+kanai | かない | 家内 | wife; my wife (plain) |
+okusan | おくさん | 奥さん | wife; your wife (formal) |
matsu | まつ | 待つ | wait |
matte iru | まっている | 待っている | is waiting |
E! | えっ! | What! (Surprised) | |
kekkon | けっこん | 結婚 | marriage |
+rikon | りこん | 離婚 | divorce |
+kon yaku | こんやく | 婚約 | engagement |
+dokushin | どくしん | 独身 | single; unmarried |
+shinguru | しんぐる | シングル | single |
kekkon-suru | けっこんする | 結婚する | get married |
kekkon-shite iru | けっこんしている | 結婚している | be married See 9-1-2 |
shiru | しる | 知る | find out |
shitte iru | しっている | 知っている | know See 9-1-3 |
+gozonji | ごぞんじ | ご存知 | know (Honorific) |
Grammar Notes
9-1-1 Verb Plain Past form and ~te form
Having learned how to make the plain forms of verbs, we will now learn the rules governing the formation of the Plain Past form.
- Group 1: The rules are different depending on the final consonant of the verb
~(w)u, ~tsu ~ru à tta kauàkatta, matsuà matta, wakaruàwakatta
~mu, ~nu, ~bu ànda nomuà nonda (shinuàshinda, asobuà asonda)
~ku àita kaku àkaita
~gu à ida isogu àisoida
~su àshita hanasu à hanashita
You can memorize these rules by saying—u.tsu.ru-tta, mu.nu.bu-nda, ku-ita, gu-ida, sushita (うつるった、むぬぶんだ、くいた、ぐいだ、すした)
- Group 2: ru -> ta taberu -> tabeta
- Group 3: Memorize each irregular form. kuru -> kita, suru -> shita, iku -> itta, aru -> atta
- Group 4: ru -> tta irassharu -> irasshatta, ossharu -> osshatta
To make the Past negative form, change nai à
nakatta nomuà nomanaià namanakatta
taberu -> tabenai -> tabenakatta
The ~te form is made by switching the vowel /a/ of the Past form to /e/ (teàta; deàda).
nomu -> nonda -> nonde
taberu -> tabeta -> tabete
Congratulations! With this, we have completed all the three sentence types in Formal/Informal, Non-Past/Past, and Affirmative/Negative. Now let’s move on!
Having learned how to make the plain forms of verbs, we will now learn the rules governing the formation of the Plain Past form.
9-1-2 V-te iru: ‘be V-ing’ or ‘have V-ed’
The verb ~te form + iru has two basic meanings of Progressive or Resultative.
- Progressive: On-going process (similar to the progressive form in English)
Ima, tabete iru. I’m eating now.
Mainichi renshuu-shite iru. I’m practicing everyday.
Asa wa benkyou-shite imashita. I was studying in the morning
In this usage, the action may or may not be happening right at the moment, but it is repeated or continuous over a period of time, which can be short or long. This pattern implies there is a beginning and ending point, and therefore refers to a current and temporary action as opposed to a permanent characteristic. Compare the following.
Yasai o yoku tabemasu I eat a lot of vegetables (as a general tendency).
Yasai o yoku tabete imasu. I’m eating a lot of vegetables (these days).
2. Resultative: a state resulting from an action or a past experience
Kuruma ni notte imasu. He is in the car.
Daigaku o sotsugyou-shite imasu. I have graduated from college. (I’m a college graduate.)
The first example above indicates that you are now in the car, having gotten in the car. It does not normally mean that you are in the middle of trying to get in the car. Similarly, the second example indicates the status of being a college graduate, rather than someone being in the middle of their commencement ceremony.
Most verbs in the ~te-iru form can have the progressive and resultative meanings; the correct interpretation depends on the context.
Koohii o nonde imasu
Progressive: I am drinking coffee right now; I’m drinking coffee these days.
Resultative: I have had coffee (so I’m not sleepy.)
However, certain verbs in the te-iru form are normally interpreted as resultative, not progressive. These verbs are called ‘instantaneous verbs’ because they apply to actions that happen and end instantaneously and do not persist. These include kekkon-suru ‘marry’ and shiru ‘find out’. These instantaneous verbs in the ~te-iru form usually indicate the resultative state. Compare the following pairs.
Kekkon-shimasu. ‘I will get married.’ (instantaneous action)
Kekkon-shite imasu. ‘I’m married.’ (resulted state)
Shirimasu. ‘I found it out.’ (instantaneous action)
Shitte imasu. “I know it.’ (resulted state)
So, watch out for the difference in the meaning between the following.
Kekkon-shimasen. ‘I will not get married.’
Kekkon-shite imaenu. ‘I’m not married.’
Also, verbs of motion such as kuru, iku, and kaeru in the te-riu form normally are interpreted as referring to a state. Compare the following.
Musuko wa daigaku ni ikimasu. My son will go to college (he will become a Freshman later, but not yet.)
Musuko wa daigaku ni itte imasu. My son has gone to college (and he is there now) or
My son goes to college. (He is currently a college student.)
Itte imasu does not mean someone is on his way to some place. Similarly, kite imasu means someone has come here (and is here) or someone comes here regularly over a period of time. Compare the two responses below.
Honda-san wa imasu ka. Is Mr. Honda here?
Hai, kite imasu. Yes, he is here.
Ima kimasu. He’ll come soon.
In casual speech, /i/ of iru or imasu often drops. Thus, you have the following.
Nani shite (i)ru no? What are you doing?
Meeru mite (i) masu. I’m looking at e-mails.
9-1-3 Shitte iru ‘ know’
As explained in 9-2-2, the verb shiru (Group 1) is an instantaneous verb meaning ‘find out; get to know’. Its te-iru form means a state of having found out something and having knowledge of something, namely ‘know’. Although the affirmative is in the te- iru form, the negative ‘ I do not know’ is NOT in the te-iru form.
Ano hito shitte imasu ka. Do you know that person?
Formal: Iie, shirimasen. I don’t know.
Plain: Uun, shiranai. I don’t know.
Kore,shitte imashitaka. Did you know this?
Formal: Iie, shirimasen deshita. No, I didn’t know.
Plain: Uun, shiranakatta. No, I didn’t know.
Itsu shirimashita ka. When did you find out?
The honorific form is gozonji, which is a noun.
Gozonji desu ka. Do you know?
Sensei wa gozonji ja nai desu. The teacher does not know
Drills and Exercises
Cue and Response Drills
Cue: 結婚していますか。 Are you married?
Response: いえ、していません。 No, I’m not.
Cue: 大学に行っていますか。 Do you go to college?
Response: いいえ、行っていません.No, I don’t.
Cue: メール、見た? Did you see the email?
Response: 今、見ています。 I’m looking at it right now.
Cue: 宿題した? Did you do the homework?
Response: 今、しています。 I’m doing it right now.
* Repeat this drill substituting the formal form ~te imasu with ~te ru.
Say it in Japanese
On the phone, Yuuki, a friend, has asked you what you are doing.
- I’m waiting for the train.
- I’m watching baseball on TV.
- I was doing homework, but why?
- I was writing that report we talked about, but would you like to go out to drink later?
- Nothing particularly. How about you?
You are going to interview a candidate for the internship in your office. Ask a co-worker about the candidate.
- Do you know this person? Who introduced him? (Who is his reference?)
- Is he here?
- Is he married? Engaged? Divorced? What does his wife do?
- Which college did he go to? What was his major? Has he taken courses in Economics?
- What does he do now?
Act in Japanese
- Ask a friend what he is doing? What was he doing around 8 o’clock last night?
- Ask a client if she knows the company called Tokyo Digital.
- Ask a client to wait a little because you will make a copy of the documents.
- Ask classmates if they are married; it they want to get married; if not, why not; if yes, when.
- Ask a co-worker if Mr. Oda, another co-worker, is a) in today; b) gone to Europe; c) back from the business trip.